1st House and 7th House
Marriage is the most intimate relationship a human being can experience, unlike blood relations, which are “predestined”.
The average person’s marriage is “decided” by him or her, and whether it is a match made in heaven or in three lifetimes, the person involved must at least consciously face his or her own choices, but very few people actually make “conscious choices”.
In astrology, the 7th house of the 12 houses of the zodiac is the house of marriage and companionship (which also involves business partners).
The 7th house is also the house of Libra, whose ideals are balance, fairness, impartiality, and harmony.
But the First House, which is exactly opposite the Seventh House, is the Aries House, and the Aries instinct is to be dictatorial, to get ahead of the game, to develop the ego, and to be egoistic.
Libra likes to be the negotiator and Aries loves to be the pioneer.
The design is interesting in that any two opposite houses have two forces that complement and repel each other.
If the house of Aries (first house) is too strong in a person’s natal chart, the person tends to be self-centered, unless the person’s Sun or Ascendant is in Libra.
Conversely, if the house of Libra (7th house) is too strong, the person tends to be led by others, unless the person’s Sun or Ascendant is in Aries.
This state of being on one end of the spectrum comes from the fact that the more repulsive force of the 1st house naturally wants to take the lead, so that it creates an imbalance in the development of the person’s life.
Either you lose the harmony of your wonderful relationships with others for the sake of your ego, or you lose your ego in order to stay in harmony with others.
To compensate for this situation, one must consciously utilize both sides of the coin.
one must consciously utilize the complementary forces of the two opposite houses, adjusting the strength of the overly strong house and increasing the strength of the weaker house.
Let the self and others always be in a state of dialog and communication, improve mutual understanding, help each other’s cooperation, and reach the harmony between the 1st house and 7th house.
When the Sun is in the 1st house, the person concerned has a very clear sense of self and will, they have a natural authority and show the style of an important person in their behavior.
They need the admiration of others and therefore often attract admirers.
In their married life, they need the cooperation of others.
If the Sun in the first house is not well aspecting the other stars.
The person in question may be extremely pretentious, and will override others with his will, demanding complete cooperation from his spouse, and acting in a rather self-centered manner;
As a result, it often causes displeasure and dissatisfaction to the spouse, resulting in difficulties in the marital relationship.
Moon in the first house is like a sponge for emotions. They are sensitive and intuitive.
They are very sensitive and intuitive, and are good at picking up the most secret emotional reactions of others, which enables them to establish a very intimate and compatible relationship with their partner.
However, the overdeveloped Moon in the 1st house, in the poorly aspecting people are very emotional, they may feel like they have not been born for a long time.
Their emotional state can be like that of a newborn baby, longing for endless love and care from an all-powerful mother or any caregiver.
This infantile state of mind carries over into adult life.
Although they don’t need as much “practically” anymore, they are psychologically accustomed to that kind of satisfaction.
They will be a big problem for partners who love their independence, and they can’t help but cling to their spouse like a jellyfish, causing stress in the relationship.
Mercury in the 1st house is a natural independent thinker. They show their talent as journalists at an early age, always asking why.
They gather information from everywhere to find their own answers, and they don’t readily accept what others tell them.
They want to have their own opinion, and when outside opinions differ from theirs, they always believe they are right.
When Mercury is not well aspecting, this kind of person and his/her partner will easily argue over things, unless his/her partner always takes his/her opinion as a guideline (ps: gui diao, a metaphor for standard, criterion, and law; a basis on which a decision or judgment can be made) and they think that this is the right opinion for them.
If Mercury is well-aspected, sometimes their views on things are really original and innovative.
However, if they are not well aspecting, they are often just talking out of their ass, and the partner has to be very diplomatic and eloquent (a specialty of the 7th house, Libra) in order to get along with this type of person.
When Venus is in the first house, this person is more or less narcissistic, but most of them are really good-looking and have the ability to be narcissistic. When Venus is well-aspected, this person’s personality is also quite good.
They love beauty, have a talent for art, love harmony, and are able to give their feelings to their partner, but at the same time, they prefer their spouse to always love them more, because they feel they are more worthy of love.
People with Venus in the 1st house are not born to be unrequited lovers, and their emotions must be kindled by the passion that others feel for them.
Their narcissistic tendencies are stronger when Venus is poorly aspecting them, and sometimes they fall in love simply because they like to feel how others love them.
This makes their marital relationship prone to problems.
Because in the monotonous routine of family life, even if they are charming, their partners are unlikely to love them deeply forever.
They are very likely to find a new reflex, and this emotional self-centeredness is the main crisis in their married life.
When Mars is in the 1st house, well-aspected or not, it’s not a guy to be messed with.
They are the pioneers of action and always like to be one step ahead of the competition.
When Mars is well-aspected, they are full of action, and any plan given to them can be accomplished, they will eliminate all difficulties, and will not stop until the goal is achieved.
Their spouses will of course admire this ability, but anyone who compares with them will of course be less decisive, persistent and quick, which makes it difficult for them to cooperate or synchronize with others.
They like to work independently, not subject to jurisdiction, and do not like to discuss, plus Mars’ impatience, impatient, as their partner at any time to withstand Mars-style impatience and temper, especially when Mars is not well aspecting.
Especially when Mars is not well aspecting, they are not only aggressive, but also more aggressive, more hot-tempered, and have a tendency to be bent on having their own way.
Whenever they set a goal and decide to do something, they will not be disturbed in any way, and they often prefer to divorce rather than settle for someone else.
Married to a person with a bad Mars 1st house aspect, if you don’t be a punching bag or an answering machine, it’s not easy to get through the day.
I’ve seen quite a few spouses, both women and men, who live with a bad Mars aspect in the first house.
When Jupiter is in the 1st house with good aspects, the person in question is what is often referred to as a lucky guy, as if there is always a god helping them.
They are usually self-confident, have a pleasant and popular personality, are affectionate, have a high imagination, and are also talented.
But these qualities are sometimes too good to be true in an ordinary married life.
Because there are too many people like them, they do not easily settle into a monogamous relationship unless the person concerned has other conservative, stable star forces to self-control.
When Jupiter is in bad aspect, the problem is even more obvious, they will have a very inflated ego, even if they are smiling to others, but mentally they always think they are superior.
They can’t “downgrade” or “stoop” to an ordinary family relationship, and they long for more, better, more extraordinary spouses, few of whom are worthy of their expectations.
So even if they do get married, it won’t be long before they’re probably fantasizing about another, better match.
And usually the overly optimistic Jupiter doesn’t care if the marriage fails, they believe they’ll find a better one in the next corner.
Saturn in the 1st house is not a good aspect, basically.
In the best of aspects, the person can’t escape the melancholy, cowering and easily pessimized personality that Saturn brings.
However, a good aspect will make the person concerned quite responsible, very tolerant and hard-working.
They take the relationship more seriously, and it takes a lot of effort to get them to sign the divorce papers.
If they are not completely heartbroken, they will not easily give up a marriage even if it looks bad to outsiders.
Because of this kind of personality, if combined with the weakness of the person concerned, they will easily become the victims of the marriage relationship.
When Saturn is not well aspecting, the person concerned is even more extremely shy, withdrawn, afraid of intimacy, unable to express feelings, and behaves in an awkward and uneasy manner.
While such a spouse may be a good meal ticket, and is valid for both men and women, he or she often fails to attract the enthusiasm of the more romantic partner.
When marriages go wrong, although it is ostensibly someone else’s fault, their “lack of emotional resonance” is not entirely innocent.
If they can meet a “very Jupiterian” who can enjoy themselves and inspire them to do the same, it will help their marriage life a lot.
But if they meet a “very Saturnian”, they may live a “long-lasting” life if they don’t want to divorce each other.
When Uranus is in the 1st house, there must be something unique and different about the person’s appearance or personality.
When the aspect is good, it may be extraordinary and elegant; when it is bad, it may be eccentric and funny.
They are natural loners and like to do their own thing without interference from others.
However, they are not dictatorial or authoritarian, they just don’t want to cooperate with others, and any voluntary cooperation will make them feel troublesome and uncomfortable.
Their favorite phrase is “Leave me alone”.
They want to be free and give others a lot of freedom.
This kind of person is good for separate marriages, each living in their own house, with separate bank accounts, friends, jobs, and occasional get-togethers.
But why would such people want to get married? In fact, they usually don’t really want to get married.
There’s also a lot of Uranus in 1st house people who marry late or don’t get married at all.
They are best suited to be themselves, and least suited to be someone’s spouse, parent, boss, lover, etc.
They have the hardest time with bondage between people.
Especially when Uranus is in a bad aspect.
In extreme cases, they will be the kind of people who don’t tell their spouses when they go out for a trip or the kind of people who don’t know when they change jobs.
If you marry such a person, it will be like marrying someone from another planet, wondering why you don’t know each other at all.
Such a spouse, if Uranus is well-aspected, will become a genius for the benefit of mankind.
But if the partner is a more “normal” person, with normal expectations for the marriage relationship, he or she will be a great success.
However, if the partner is a more “normal” person with normal expectations for the relationship, and accidentally marries someone with a bad Uranus 1st house aspect, the marriage life will become a big shock.
Because it is very difficult for Uranus to adjust itself to match others.
Unless the spouse starts something new, he/she has to develop his/her own interests.
If you make good use of Uranus spouse’s advantage of non-interference, you can also pursue an extraordinary life.
The independent modern feminist doesn’t have to ostracize the man in the 1st house of Uranus.
At least the man is not male chauvinistic.
The Neptune 1st house man is the man who has lost himself.
Neptune’s murkiness, chaos, and lack of boundaries make them lack a well-defined sense of self or self-image.
Their “sense of self” is always confused with the “other selves” around them.
They take on the needs of others as their own.
They are chameleons who don’t know they are changing and make it their vocation to respond to the expectations of others.
They are more sensitive and intuitive than Moon in 1st house.
However, they are not sensitive to others’ needs; they do not know the difference between the “human will” and the “original will”.
When someone close to them is sad, they may think it is their own sadness and fall into self-pitying moods, not being able to empathize with others.
When Neptune is well-aspected, this Neptune 1st house person is compassionate, helpful, and willing to sacrifice for their spouse.
They will be willing to sacrifice for their spouse, and anyone who is sick, poor, or disappointed in life can receive unconditional comfort and love from them.
This also makes Neptune in the 1st house vulnerable to being deceived and taken advantage of by the spouse or other partners.
When Neptune is badly aspected, the person in question is often a lost lamb with no purpose in life.
They’re bouncing around from career to career, partner to partner, lifestyle to lifestyle, never really knowing what they really want.
They are also often very addictive, knowing that smoking is bad for their health, but all the while continuing to smoke even after a heart attack, or drinking obsessively with a third of their stomach cut out.
Their self-destructive behavior often makes their partners both worried and angry, and they use it as a way to get the love they want.
Neptune 1st house people often have a very confused relationship with their mothers.
When Neptune is conjunct the Ascendant their birth is often a mystery.
I’ve seen an example of a person in their thirties realizing that they were adopted, that they had been abandoned, or in some cases the person may have been born out of wedlock.
Babies born under these abnormal conditions usually feel unloved or underloved.
Their avoidance of life and lack of courage to say yes to reality stems from the “worthlessness” of their souls.
They unconsciously feel that they don’t deserve a better life.
Those who can’t love themselves are also hard to love others.
The problem with their marital relationships is that they can give sympathy to their spouse, but not love, or they demand love from their spouse.
Or they demand love from their spouse, who can only give them sympathy.
Neptune 1st house marital relationships often present one of two conditions.
Either the person is a victim in the marriage, losing their reputation, money, stability or normal happiness, etc. for a “less worthy” spouse.
Or they are asking others to sacrifice for them.
They may have made a mess of their life and left their spouse to clean up the mess.
But strangely enough, either way, there is a mysterious strength to their marital relationship:
Sympathy and empathy run deep, and often those in this marital fog have a hard time breaking free.
People with Pluto in the 1st house are fanatics, fanatical about both creation and destruction.
The last thing they can do is stay in the middle. There are only two kinds, all or nothing.
So when they love someone, they love them with all their heart and soul, and never hold back.
But when they don’t love, that’s usually when they hate, and staying friends with ex-husbands and ex-wives isn’t something this kind of person excels at.
Unless they’ve betrayed someone first and feel guilty about it, they’ll have to stay friendly.
But if they are overly friendly, it could be that they simply can’t forget their old feelings, and there are many people who will renew their relationship with their ex-wife.
When Pluto is well aspecting them, their fervor often gives them an amazing drive to accomplish certain goals.
Like losing 25 kilograms in three months, writing 200,000 words in a month without sleep, completing a double doctorate in law and psychology in three years, and so on.
Their willpower is amazing, and they have the courage to break out of the mold and start something new.
Their lives are often like snakes shedding their skins in stages, each time revealing a new image.
But when Pluto’s aspects are bad, they are formidable foes.
They are not afraid of self-destruction, they exude a “don’t mess with me” glow, and are usually feared by their spouses.
This Plutonian is controlling, suspicious and jealous.
Because the slightest betrayal is a slap in the face of their self-esteem, they will not tolerate an affair.
Their excessive sexual desire and passion are difficult to fulfill in a routine and repetitive marriage.
But because they are good at keeping secrets, it is usually difficult for their spouses to discover their infidelity.
Generally speaking, people with Pluto in the first house are better as lovers than partners.
Their fervor and passion don’t lend themselves well to marriage.
But if they are married.
How do you temper the fervor and passion so that it doesn’t mess up life.
or strain their spouse’s relationship to the point of breathlessness, is their greatest test.
If you’re married to someone with Pluto in the 1st house, both people will have to change if you want the marriage to be trouble-free.
When there are these planets mentioned above in the first house, and other planets in the seventh house.
It is very easy for these stars to show a 180 degree square aspect to each other (within 6 degrees of error), representing two opposing forces.
This makes the force of each planet much stronger than that of a single star, and creates even more difficulties.
Even if these stars (two or more) are not in opposition, the repulsive force, though diminished, is still stronger than if they were alone.
While considering the effect of any one planet, the influence of the other stars in the opposite house must be weighed.
If there is no lord in the first house or no lord in the seventh house
the influence of the sign of the moving house (e.g. if the ascendant is Sagittarius, the first house is the house of Sagittarius, and the seventh house is usually Gemini), which is “empty”, should be taken into account.
Some people marry someone who “just happens” to have an empty house that they don’t have.
This “embedded relationship” is often a “key lesson” designed by destiny.
When the Sun is in the seventh house, the person values their spouse and partner very highly.
They put the “we” above the “I”.
The “we” is always bigger and more important than the “I”.
For such a person, life would not be the same without many “we’s” in it.
For such people, if there are not many “us” in their lives, such as husband and wife, partners, coworkers, classmates, etc., they simply don’t know how to live.
And because of this “importance”, they like to look for people who are important to them.
Therefore, when they are looking for and choosing a partner, they will be attracted to those who have the qualities of “Sun” and “Leo”.
They want their partner to be important, to be a star, to be a leader, to stand out from the crowd, and they don’t want to be in the shadow of the star.
They don’t care to be in the shadow of the superstar, they identify with their superstar.
But when the Sun is poorly aligned, this idolatry will not only make them look small next to their “inflated” spouse, they will actually become small.
They become really small. They lose their independent self-identity.
They will lose their independent self-identity and take their spouse’s values as the values of their own life, not caring about the meaning and mission of their own existence.
They are the best housekeepers, followers, attendants, and callers of their self-centered spouses.
There is no equal love and respect in this kind of marriage or partnership, only “obedience” and “following”.
They may be the best spectators, but they are never the best spouses.
Some Suns in the 7th house are more powerful.
They “find a way” to marry someone important and then make themselves more important.
Diana, Princess of Wales, had the Sun in the seventh house.
Diana of Wales had the sun in the seventh house, and she was really famous for Charlie, and then she became more famous than Charlie, and that’s when their marriage started to work.
That’s when things start to go wrong in their marriage.
When two people who both feel they are more important are under the same roof, the marriage becomes a competition rather than a partnership.
The Moon in the seventh house derives its emotional security from a stable and comfortable home.
Their ideal home should be like a child’s home and their spouse should be like a good mother.
They enjoy the comforts and material satisfactions that a home provides, such as good furniture, good food, good relationships and intimate physical contact.
But they are hesitant and reserved about “sex”.
Unless they have to, sex for them always evokes incestuous taboos.
However, due to the unstable nature of the Moon (waxing and waning), their marital relationship is also prone to irregular changes.
Especially when the Moon is poorly aspecting and in an inconjunctive aspect, the
Their spouses or partners may be emotionally unstable, which may bring great trouble to the marriage relationship.
When the Moon is in good aspect, they will choose someone who can protect and nourish them.
The male meets someone who is like a mother to him.
The female meets a husband with feminine qualities who has many maternal functions except that he will not bear children.
Those with Mercury in the seventh house are very mentally interested in companionship.
They enjoy discovering, experiencing, and contemplating the meaning of relationships.
They are enthusiastic communicators and are partners who don’t worry about running out of things to say.
The only problem is that they’re not interested in just “one relationship”.
They need a variety of relationships to stimulate their imagination and thinking.
Partnerships or marriages are their field studies, so they are hard to pin down.
Basically, they are afraid of restrictive relationships.
They love a partner with strong mental activity and are more interested in mental interaction than emotional commitment.
Therefore, if you are in a relationship with this type of person, your spouse must have the intention of “lifelong learning”, so as not to lose touch with the other person’s mind.
Therefore, if you are in a relationship with such a person, your spouse must have the intention of “lifelong learning” so as not to be unable to keep up with the other person’s mental development.
If Mercury is not well aspecting
This multi-talented Mercury 7th house native may lead a colorful “love” life.
But most of their lovers will be friends.
Jealous spouses should be especially wary of friends with whom they have a lot to talk about.
They can talk even on the phone.
Some Mercury 7th house people may not have any Mercury qualities at all.
Then they may be projecting those qualities onto their partner.
They may run into a lover who is quirky, eloquent, fickle, and unwilling to make a commitment.
This can lead to a lot of trouble.
The 7th house of Mercury is an easy place to get “divorced”, especially if Mercury is not well aspecting.
However, in modern society, intimate and important relationships do not necessarily take place only in marriage.
Some live-in relationships are more committed than marriages.
A person with this aspect must have had more than two very important partnerships in his life.
Venus in the 7th house is a great believer in the “myth of marriage”.
They feel that life has meaning only when they have found their ideal lover and have made their vows.
A good Venus aspect not only attracts the ideal lover.
They are also the “god of love” in the eyes of others:
They know how to appreciate beauty and try to keep a beautiful image to attract others;
They have a very elegant way of talking about love.
Unlike the drama of Venus in the 5th house.
or Venus in the 8th house.
For them
love or married life should be like a Bach fugue rather than a Tchaikovsky pathos or a Wagnerian passion.
But when Venus is poorly aspected.
Especially in opposition to the First House.
This ideal of love is destined to suffer.
They may attract someone who’s extremely self-centered.
But because of their respect and desire for harmony.
They’ll often put up with anything for the sake of harmony.
Even when their relationships become both undesirable and sickly.
They may be trapped in a most unattractive married life.
In the end, they may destroy themselves.
Mars in the seventh house is very impulsive about intimacy.
They would be the ones who are determined to enter the auditorium after a week of dating.
And this impulsive and reckless personality also shows in their married life.
They like to take the initiative, to be the boss of the relationship.
Aggressive, they’re not easy to get along with.
Especially if they meet another hothead.
Arguments and even fights are inevitable.
Some Mars 7th house people attract such a troublesome person.
Married life becomes like an arena, full of confrontations of willpower and action.
A bad Mars aspect is the position where divorces are very frequent.
The process of divorce is usually unpleasant.
It may go from the police station to the lawyers and the judge.
The worst thing about this kind of Martian is their temper and aggression.
If their spouse still harbors illusions about them.
The way to get along with them is not to be confrontational, but to defuse the impatience and the fire of Mars in a very tactful and gentle way.
According to astrological tradition, a person with Jupiter in the seventh house
are the “lucky ones” or “beneficiaries” of marriages and partnerships.
They often marry rich, famous and influential people and benefit materially or socially from the relationship.
This is actually quite “limited” and does not happen very often unless Jupiter is in good aspect to Venus or the Sun.
Often the benefits Jupiter brings are not always so tangible.
Sometimes Jupiter brings a warm, welcoming, generous, optimistic partner who brings joy and confidence to this Jupiter 7th house person.
Sometimes it’s the Jupiter 7th house person who plays this role for others.
They express unselfish love and concern for both the spiritual and material well-being of others.
The highly developed Jupiter 7th house person will share a high level of spiritual love with their partner, not just worldly love.
But if Jupiter is poorly aspecting the 7th house.
The person in question may be someone who is forever striving for the perfect relationship.
They think the neighbor’s lawn must be greener.
The lover they haven’t caught up with yet must be better.
He likes to be the most valuable bachelor or bachelorette far better than someone’s spouse.
A person with a bad Jupiter aspect.
will marry someone who “promises everything but never keeps his word”.
Their spouse exhibits the negative Jupiter traits they project:
High-mindedness, pomposity, wastefulness, failure to keep promises, and double-mindedness.
When Jupiter is poorly aspecting the 7th house, it
Jupiter in the seventh house may also present a peculiar phenomenon.
Because Jupiter is associated with religion and faith.
Therefore, either they or their spouse play the role of “God” in their marriage relationship.
If Jupiter is well-aspected.
They are happy to be in God’s favor.
They take pleasure in worshipping God, who is all-powerful and all-knowing.
They become small believers, proud of their humility.
This is usually the type of person who is always obedient to their spouse’s commands and follows them as a bible.
But if Jupiter is poorly aspected.
On the one hand, they treat their spouse like a god, or think they are a god.
But this god may be like the Old Testament God who was famous for punishing, terrorizing, and testing the faith of his people.
He could be like Job, who was thrown into the belly of the whale.
Or meet a false god.
These are like a blown up balloon.
Bad Jupiter aspects puncture the illusion of holy matrimony.
Saturn in the seventh house is unfortunate.
Saturn is the planet of mischief, restriction, lessons, and difficulties.
Regardless of the aspect (poor aspects make problems even worse).
The person in question’s marriage or partnership is always missing a little bit of good luck, or a little bit more “bad luck”.
Either they can’t find the right person, so they don’t get married.
Or they realize they have the wrong person when they get married.
Or they marry someone who is extremely cold and uncaring.
Married life is a disaster.
Sometimes it is they themselves who cause the difficulties of their spouses.
Saturn makes them “afraid” of intimacy.
They’re a clam that closes its shell and won’t share its pearls.
They can also be extremely stingy, both mentally and materially, and therefore unable to “share”.
Some 7th house Saturnians have a married life that is a replica of their parents’.
Saturn brings family karma.
Their parents were incapable of creating a happy union and passed this lesson on to the next generation.
The children once again experience a sad, melancholic, binding and oppressive marriage.
Many people in the 7th house of Saturn do not understand why they are trapped in a “bad marriage”.
It is because Saturn is a far-sighted and careful power-monger.
They never get carried away like Mars, fall in love at first sight like Venus, or are full of optimism like Jupiter.
They are very reserved, usually pessimistic about people.
They always try to compare the advantages and disadvantages of different objects, carefully calculating and choosing the one that is most favorable to them, or the safest to marry.
They treat marriage as a sale, but people are not commodities, and it is difficult to return a wrong purchase.
Saturn in 7th house people have bad marriages.
But they don’t get divorced.
Because divorce takes a toll.
Some Saturns trade their age for a little luck.
They may have married someone with a big age difference, when they were young, for the sake of material security.
And married life disappointed them.
But when their partner died first and they had a second chance to choose a partner, they picked a more satisfying relationship.
Saturn is reluctant to change.
But usually change brings mostly the better part.
Uranus in the 7th house.
It’s as if married life is riddled with landmines that could detonate at any time.
This aspect is especially difficult for women.
Tradition allows monogamy, but sees polygamy as anathema.
But for Uranians in the 7th house, marriage shouldn’t represent bondage and they are not bound by it; they are best suited for open marriages.
When Uranus is well-aspected, the person or partner may have special talents or gifts; poor aspects bring out the eccentric and deviant.
Married life in the 7th house of Uranus is full of change…
My friend got married and then got a fake divorce for certain factors.
Then they got married again because of immigration.
Then they moved abroad and divorced because they didn’t get along.
Uranus 7th house people are prone to divorce.
Divorces are often caused by unexpected events.
They don’t marry on impulse like Mars 7th house people.
They marry because of the “spirit of experimentation”, knowing in their hearts that they are not suitable for marriage, but with the attitude of giving it a try.
Although they have the spirit of experimentation.
They do not intend to change their personalities.
They still expect to have absolute freedom and autonomy.
What they want to reform is the institution of marriage and the marriage nest.
Sometimes they are lucky.
When Uranus is well-aspected.
they meet other Uranians or Jupiters.
Both parties enjoy great freedom, but after a long time of freedom, it’s often time to change partners.
In this case, they’re not too sad that
They don’t see divorce as that serious.
Unlike the reaction of Venus 7th house people;
Nor do they react like Saturn 7th house people. Divorce is divorce.
They’re not in favor of the institution of marriage in the first place anyway.
There are times when they’ll still be living under the same roof as their divorced spouse.
They live their own lives, but they are much closer than when they were a couple.
People with Neptune in the 7th house are “destined” to make sacrifices for their relationship or marriage, or to let others make sacrifices for them.
